Kamis, 05 Januari 2017

How to Mend a Broken Heart

It must be really hard for someone who is going through days with a broken heart, someone who is just had a broke up with boy/girlfriend. The days turn so sad, because the heart feels empty. I've felt these, it was really hard to pass, everyday all I did was saying "I'm giving up." "I can't do this anymore.", I lost weight, my rank in class dropped so badly like, 15 ratings. Those days were really dark.
But I moved on, even I thought it was impossible.
And maybe you, you are going through this right now, I don't want what had happened to me, happen to you, so here some ways I've did in order to move on. 

  1. If you went through a bad break up, and you feel like you need to apologize, you can. Don't hesitate and don't expect anything from it. 
  2. If you feel distracted by him, you may delete his contact, or other social media. Cut contact for a while may be good for you, give yourself space, until you feel like you are fine by yourself.
  3. Go out with friends, old-friends, that going to heal.
  4. Being closer to God, I promise you, it heals, in times like this is very good for you to vent, to pour every heavy things you have in your heart. You can cry, cry a lot, and everything feels more light.
  5. Go to new places, meet new people, new experiences, these kind of thing will open new doors in your way of thinking, which is really good and effects your life in this phase.
  6. Usually girl whose heart is broken is more insecure, you can follow my way, you can copy tumblr positive quotes, print it and stick it to you room wall, and read it every morning.
  7. Don't close your heart.
  8. If you may, don't stalk. I know it will be so hard, but that's okay, you can do it anyway, but don't think after you do. 
I think in this period of time, you should be more close to yourself, and seek peacefulness within, be your own best friend, fulfill your needs within your soul with yourself! Because when you being left by someone there must some loneliness in your heart, nah, you should fill it with yourself and God. 



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